A second chance…

These are short poignant observations from a piece entitled “If I Had My Life To Live Over”, written by humorist, journalist, and author, Erma Bombeck — upon discovery of her terminal cancer. There is enlightenment and power in these bittersweet words.

• I would have talked less and listened more.

• I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained and the sofa faded.

• I would have eaten the popcorn in the “GOOD” living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.

• I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.

• I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.

• I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.

• I would have sat on the lawn with my children and not worried about grass stains.

• I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life.

• I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren’t there for the day.

• I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn’t show soil or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.

• Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I’d have cherished every moment realizing that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist in a miracle.

• When my kids kissed me impetuously, would never have said, “Later, now go get washed up for dinner.” There would have been more “I love you’s” … more “I’m sorry’s” … but mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute … look at it and really see it … live it .. and never give it back.

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One response to “A second chance…

  1. rel

    Rob,
    I love Erma and return to her books often. She was a guru and timely philosopher for our age and though I miss her columns, her legacy remains.
    rel

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